Tuesday, May 22, 2007

Heart Light, Eyes Open, Ears Tuned In, Mouth Shut

I was typing something and this damn thing shut down. So I don't know what the fuck I wanted to say. Something about being positive and happy and all that bullshit, but the truth is I'm pissed off today. Does the world have a second to listen to me bitch? Didn't think so. Well I'm going to anyway.

Rudeness vs Honesty 101

There is a difference between honesty and rudeness. Bottom line. Maybe some don't think so but I'll clearly explain it:
1) Rudeness is saying whats on your mind, no matter how it effects the other person.
2) Honesty is when you say the truth, so that it is fair and the other person is given the facts of the situation.
3)Rudeness doesn't come from a "good" place inside yourself. It comes from that ugly monster that jealousy, envy, hate, greed and insecurity feeds.
4) Honesty is meant usually to help the situation, make life easier, clear things up so that everyone can move on to a more productive point.
5)I read a quote somewhere and its at home so I'll paraphrase: Rudeness is a weak man's imitation of strength. Only the weak can be cruel, gentleness can only be expected from the strong.

Hope I summed it up. If I can find the quote I'll add it. If you have to say every thought that flies into your mind and out your mouth don't be surprised if other people don't like what you've got to say. Who the fuck are you to say whatever you want and expect everyone to step in line? I don't get it. Did it ever occur to you that others actually have more going on between their two ears than whatever you got to say at this very moment? Some people have unbearable pain and suffering and don't even mention it. Keep you big mouth shut. As my first grade teacher told me once "if you don't have anything nice to say, keep your fucking mouth shut".

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