"I Must Have Written Your Name

A Hundred Times" she said to me. Right after she very eloquently said "I'm sorry, but who ARE you?" I'm Genna I replied, which must have lit a spark in her memory because she immediately busted out with "Ohhhhh, YOU'RE Genna".

Now I could have been rude, but why would I stoop to the level of a person that obviously is so crass that she doesn't know how rude she sounded. I find it harder and harder for me to keep my "mouth" (as my mother calls it) in check. Don't these people know what is polite and what is not? I am a perfect stranger for God's sake, why would she have to write my name a 100 times, I ask you? Even Steve found that peculiar, which is pretty amazing, because Steve NEVER takes anything anyone says "the wrong way".

None the less, as my father always told me, there is a reason to why a person can not look you in the eye. And that I discovered is what I find so upsetting about these people, they can't look me in the eye, and I hardly know them. Which leads me to assume they are writing my name a 100 times, copying my centerpieces, and just plain talking about me behind my back. Maybe I should have been rude, but I am trying to be more mature lately. I want to be calm, reserved and composed like my Grama, who would have just smiled, as I did, and said
"It's nice to meet you".

Compare & Contrast

Top: My Centerpiece
Bottom: Other Centerpiece

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Top: My Centerpiece
Bottom: Other Centerpiece


*To present an accurate description, and not one with the polish of a professional, all pics displayed above have been taken by amature personal digital cameras and not by those of a professional.

Sofie Sooo Big

Some recent pics of my baby
13 wks.

13 weeks.

11 weeks.

9 weeks.

2 months.

8 wks.

Almost 7 wks.

Almost 7wks ~The day we got her!

Imagine You're A Deer...

Love this scene from my cousin Vinny. "you're gonna shoot a deer?"


And OF COURSE this one.

A Face Lift

Time for a change. As you can see I gave my blog a refreshing face lift. Hope it looks good.

I Need

A Mani-Pedi ~bad!


SpaTime ~Super Bad


Yoga ~To Relax Me


So I can Look Like This :)

I Really Want This

Isabel Floor Pillow

Sofie Sooo Sleepy

I am looking to make my baby a nice soft dog bed. This is an idea.


or this



and I like the Personalization that these have
36 x 42 x 4 (Rectangle)

Bombay Again

I'm looking for a hall table for my tiny foyer. Which do you like more?

Why I Should Go To Church... More

The Priest who married us has a blog. If anyone would have ever told me 5 yrs ago that a priest would have a blog, or that I would occasionally read it I would have laughed and laughed.

But here it is. This one post made me really think, of so many people. Father V. has a gift of writing as well as being an excellent priest. He is my favorite priest by far.



Another great post here.

Compare & Contrast

Bombay Harvest Wreath VS Bombay Outlet Autumn Wreath











Top: $69.00
Dimensions: 24.00"dia

Bottom: $24.95
Dimensions: 24.00"dia
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Bombay Burgundy Paisley Euro Pillow VS Bombay OutletParisian Euro Pillow











Top: $39.00Material: Polyester
Accents: Piping
Dimensions: 26.00"w x 26.00"h
Fill Materials: Poly Filled
Care: Machine Washable

Bottom: $29.95
Material: Poly/Viscose Blend
Finish: Hand finished
Dimensions: 26.00"w x 26.00"h
Accents: Embroidery
Fill Material: Poly Filled
Care: Dry Clean Only
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Bombay Ascott Side TableVS
Bombay Outlet Hampton Side Table











Top: $99.99
Dimensions: 16.00"l x 20.34"w x 28.50"h,
Finish: Vintage Mahogany

Bottom: $99.95
Dimensions: 16.00"l x 20.75"w x 28.75"h
Finish: Mahogany
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Bombay Vintage Side Table VS Bombay Outlet Sydney Side Table











Top: Sale $149.99
Dimensions: 16.00"l x 22.00"w x 30.00"h
Finish: Vintage Mahogany

Bottom: $129.95
Dimensions: 14.50"l x 24.00"w x 29.00"h
Finish: Plantation Mahogany
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Bombay Montague Mirror VS Bombay Outlet Cora Panel Mirror












Top: $99.00
Frame Finish: Gold
Dimensions: 9.00"w x 46.00"h

Bottom: $49.95
Frame Finish: Antique Gold
Dimensions: 9.00"w x 57.00"h

Pregos?

I saw this blog and this card.

Ahhh, A Girl Can Dream

In a perfect world, our homes would be filled with fresh flowers and gourmet dinners would be served by candlelight every night of the week.

The Secrets of Stagers

13 Ways to Make Your Home Look Like a Million Bucks By Leah Hennen, special to HGTV.com

Ever walk into a Sunday open house or a model home and notice how...well, inhumanly perfect it looks? If so, chances are the property is "staged"–in real estate parlance, dressed with paint, furniture arrangements, art and accessories that are all carefully designed to highlight the home’s strengths, downplay its weaknesses, and appeal to the greatest possible pool of prospective buyers. Whether you’re designing to sell or designing to dwell, here’s how the home-staging pros get that "I have to have it!" look–and how their tips and tricks can make your own humble abode look like a million bucks.

1. Make an Entrance~
You know the saying: You never have a second chance to make a first impression. "The outside of your home is the first thing guests see," points out Christopher Breining, owner of HomeStagers, Inc., (www.HomeStagersInc.com) in San Francisco. And like it or not, it speaks volumes about what’s inside–and about its owner. A quart of glossy paint in a bold, cheerful color for the front door, new hardware (or a little elbow grease applied to clean and polish the existing knocker, lockset, porch light, house numbers, and mailbox), a fresh coir or seagrass mat, and a trio of seasonal potted plants on the landing will dramatically brighten and refresh your home’s entry and make visitors feel welcome, Breining says. Bonus: This small investment pays personal dividends, too, giving you an emotional boost and a dose of house-pride with each homecoming.
A welcoming entry, such as this one designed by Pamela Berstler, helps to set the tone for the rest of the house.

2. Conquer Clutter~
Admit it: You have too much stuff. "The most important thing most people can do to improve their home is to clear out, clean up, and get rid of clutter," says Lisa LaPorta, cast designer on HGTV’s hit Designed to Sell and owner of Lisa LaPorta Design in Los Angeles. Be ruthless as you go about purging your belongings. If you haven’t used it in three months, stagers say, box it up and store it away; if you haven’t used it in a year, get rid of it. And make a house rule that for every new item that comes in, an old one has to leave. Any mixed feelings you have about tossing life’s accumulated detritus will quickly be replaced with a sense of relief and appreciation of your Zen-like new surroundings.
Sound daunting? Take it one room at a time. If your bookshelves are bursting at the seams, for instance, "clear them off and start over," suggests Michelle Yackel, owner of Divine Redesigns in Atlanta. "It’s okay to have empty space around your books and knickknacks." Inexpensive baskets make great hiding places for unsightly paperbacks, and add texture and visual interest. Books stacked vertically serve as pedestals to show off prized pottery or other objects d’art. You can even remove the dust covers from hardbacks and group them by color, turning a busy jumble into a decorative addition to the room.

If you simply can’t part with your collection of Architectural Digest or your kids won’t let you anywhere near their 300 carefully assembled Lego creations, it’s time to get creative about storage and organization. Retailers like the Container Store and Target sell handy rolling bins designed to slip under a bed and house everything from household supplies to kids’ toys. And if you can’t get rid of it and can’t hide it, flaunt it with style: "Places like IKEA sell colorful and inexpensive fabric, cardboard, or melamine magazine holders. Lined up on a shelf, they look a lot cleaner than stacks of magazines everywhere and add a unified visual element to the room," says Michael Friedes, owner of Nest Home Design in Oakland, California.

3. Make "Less is More" Your Mantra~
Don’t forget, too, that a cluttered look can also come from too much furniture. "People tend to line their walls with furniture–one piece after another," laments Christopher Breining. When professional fluffers descend on a home being prepped for market, they often whisk away as much as half of the owner’s furnishings–and the house looks miles better (not to mention bigger) for it. You don’t have to whittle that drastically, but take a hard look at what you have and ask yourself what you can live without. "You really only need two pieces of furniture per wall: A bed and a nightstand, say, or a dresser and a chair," Breining advises. Another rule of thumb: If you don’t use it regularly, lose it. While you’re doing this sometimes-painful pruning, remind yourself that every square foot you free up is prime real estate.

4. Float Furniture~ If your couches are clinging to your walls, you’re not alone–it’s a typical decorating mistake, stagers say. "There’s a common belief that rooms will feel larger and be easier to use if all the furniture is pushed up against the walls, but it’s simply not true," says Lisa LaPorta. Instead, furnish your space: Float furniture away from walls, reposition it into cozy conversational groups, and place pieces so that the traffic flow in the room is obvious–in most cases, this means keeping the perimeters clear. "When you place furniture in a room, envision a figure-eight or the letter H in the middle, with clear pathways around it," LaPorta suggests. Not only will this make the space more user-friendly, it will open up the room and make it seem larger.

If you’re nervous about doing something that can seem a bit radical, "Try an area rug on an angle first, then move the couch and see how it looks. But just try it," Christopher Breining implores. If the new arrangement doesn’t strike your fancy, you can always put things back the way they were. But chances are, you won’t want to

5. Mix It Up~
You’d never consider donning the same clothes for days on end, would you? So why force your home to endure the same tired decor year after year? "We get used to our surroundings, but they can become stale and stagnant. If a chair has been in the same spot for five years, move it!" admonishes Barb Schwarz, owner of StagedHomes in Seattle, Washington, and Concord, California, and coauthor of Home Staging: The Winning Way to Sell Your House for More Money (John Wiley & Sons). Think of your digs as a nesting superstore, with the added bonus that everything in it is free. Give yourself permission to move furniture, artwork and accessories between rooms on a whim. Just because you bought that armchair for the living room, for instance, doesn’t mean it won’t look great anchoring a sitting area in your bedroom. Or try perching that little-used dining room table in front of a pretty window, top it with buffet lamps and other accessories, and press it into service as a beautiful writing desk or library table. And as for that now-empty dining room? Flank an ottoman or cocktail table with a loveseat and comfy chairs for an instant conversation nook. "When you move things to new spots, you appreciate them again–and give your house a whole new look for nothing," Schwarz says.

6. Rediscover "Lost" Spaces~
"A big part of what stagers do is create fantasy spaces: An exercise room, a meditation space, an art studio, a family game room," says Linda Russell, owner of HouseDressing in Montclair, New Jersey. "We take that unused space on the third floor or in the basement and turn it into something you’ve always dreamed about having." So if you have a room that currently serves only to gather junk, repurpose it into something that will add to the value–and your enjoyment–of your home. Move those boxes to a rented storage space (or better yet, have a yard sale or donate their contents to charity) and get to work creating the space you yearn for. The simple addition of a comfortable armchair, a small table, and a lamp in a stairwell nook will transform it into a cozy reading spot, Russell suggests. Or drape fabric on the walls of your basement, lay inexpensive rubber padding or a carpet remnant on the floor, and toss in a few cushy pillows. Voila! Your new meditation room or yoga studio.

7. Let the Sun Shine In~
"We almost always take off old, heavy drapery and put something light, airy, and gauzy in its place," says Russell. This ushers in natural light and makes a previously closed-in space seem larger. Simple sheers on a tension rod are great for screening an unattractive view and providing a bit of privacy but still letting in lots of light and visually enlarging a room. If you have lovely vistas from a set of windows, try doing away with treatments altogether. If privacy is paramount, top-down, bottom-up Roman shades will block the neighbors’ view of your bathtub but still let you gaze at the sky while you soak. Lisa LaPorta favors bamboo or parchment shades and simple curtain panels made from fine cotton twill or translucent linen – all of which let light stream in during the day, provide privacy at night, and add touchable texture to a room. Or consider investing in Christopher Breining’s favorite window treatments: Sheer fabric shades with built-in blinds (Hunter Douglas offers several options). "They look great and offer so much versatility," he says.

Other window-treatment tips: If windows are narrow, extend curtain rods a foot or so on each side to suggest width. If your ceilings are low, hang rods right at the ceiling line and consider window treatments with vertical stripes to create the illusion of height.

8. Light the Way~
One of the things that make staged homes look so warm and welcoming is great lighting design. As it turns out, many of our own homes are improperly lit–either we have too few fixtures, or our lighting is too dim or too harsh (or all of the above). To remedy the problem and make your home more inviting, increase the wattage in your lamps and fixtures (aim for a total of 100 watts for every 50 square feet). Then install dimmers so you can vary light levels according to your mood and the time of day. This is a relatively simple project for a do-it-yourselfer, or you can hire an electrician for a couple of hours to do several at once. (And while you’re at it, be sure to replace those dingy, almond-colored light-switch covers with crisp white ones. New covers cost less than a buck apiece and are a quick, easy update.)

Don’t depend on just one or two fixtures per room, either. It’s just as important to layer lighting as it is to have sufficient wattage, Breining points out. So go for ambient (general or overhead), task (pendant, undercabinet, or reading), and accent (table and wall) lighting. "A combination of overhead, floor, table, and accent lighting creates great ambience," the San Francisco stager says. "Having lights on different planes provides good illumination and makes the room interesting." One thing that’s always in Breining’s bag of tricks: uplights. "You can buy one for as little as $5 at home-improvement stores and hide it behind a potted plant–it creates incredible drama." Another hint: Place mirrors, silver or glass bowls, or other reflective objects near lamps to bounce light around the room and make it glow even more.

9. Make a Splash with Color~
"Painting is the cheapest, easiest way to give your home a new look," says Designed to Sell’s Lisa LaPorta. Even if you were weaned on off-white walls, take a chance and test out a quart of paint in a warm, neutral hue (you can always paint over it if you don’t like the effect). These days, the definition of "neutral" extends way beyond beige– from warm tans and honeys to soft blue-greens.

Even deeper shades–long verboten for interiors–are enjoying a renaissance. "Don’t shy away from dark colors in a powder room, dining room, or bedroom," says Oakland stager Michael Friedes. "A deep tone on the walls can make the space more intimate, dramatic, and cozy–and surprisingly, it can even make a small room seem bigger because there’s no delineation of the corners."

How to start? With a pillow, textile, or piece of art you love, LaPorta suggests. "The background color is often great for walls, and you can pull out the other colors for accents around the room." You could also try painting an accent wall to draw attention to a dramatic fireplace or a lovely set of windows. Either paint the wall a contrasting–but still complementary–color (such as a rich red flanked by taupe walls) or a more intense version of the paint used in the rest of the room (say, a deep butterscotch that will play off the soft camel walls surrounding it). If you have built-in bookcases or niches, experiment with painting the insides a color that will make them pop–a soft sage green to set off the white pottery displayed within, perhaps.

If you’re too timid to whip out the paintbrushes, add punch with richly colored accessories, pillows, and throws, LaPorta says. Bonus: When seasons change or you’re ready for something new, these couldn’t be simpler to switch out.

10. Paint It Black~
Using white-painted furniture is a tried-and-true tactic for freshening a room, but don’t forget its opposite: A coat of satiny black paint can revive tired furnishings and lend a chic, dramatic flair to just about any space. "Painting an old piece black immediately updates it," says Michael Friedes. "We use black in staging all the time. It’s a great punctuation–it has a graphic quality, provides contrast, and makes a real impact." And not only does black work with every other hue, it makes the colors surrounding it pop and melds with most any décor, from vintage to ethnic to modern. They key, as always, is moderation: Use black as an accent in picture frames, lampshades, accessories, and small pieces of furniture. "The big black leather couch of the ’80s is black gone awry," Friedes warns.

11. Make Your Art Sing~
If your home is like most, art is hung in a high line encircling each room. Big mistake: Placing your pictures, paintings, and prints in such stereotypical spots can render them almost invisible. "Art displayed creatively makes the art stand out more and shows off your space," Friedes says.

So break up that line and vary the patterning and grouping by hanging a row of art diagonally–with each piece staggered a bit higher or lower than the next (great for directing the eye toward an architectural feature like a window or arched doorway), triangularly–with one picture above, one below, and one beside (a nice accent for a table-and-chair vignette), or in a vertical line (perfect for accentuating a high ceiling). "Hang pictures on different planes so that your eye goes up and down as it travels around the room–it creates interest on your walls," says Friedes. Try hanging things a bit lower than you’re used to, as well, so that wall art relates to furniture groupings rather than floating (and getting lost) in its own space.

12. Accessorize with Flair~
Now that you have your furniture placed, your rooms dappled with color, and your art hung, it’s time to layer in accessories for the finishing touch. When it comes to eye-pleasing accessorizing, three is the magic number–though one and five work well, too. And rather than setting your trio of accessories out in a row, imagine a triangle and place one object at each point. Scale is important, too, so in your group of three, be sure to vary items by height and width, with the largest at the back and the smallest in front. "On a side table, for instance, you might have a lamp, a plant or flower arrangement, and a book or a small box," Barb Schwarz explains. For impact, group accessories by color, shape, texture, or some other unifying element, stagers suggest. Another hint, courtesy of Monclair stager Linda Russell: The eye naturally "reads" the room from left to right, so putting a striking object in the far right corner will automatically draw your gaze there and make the room seem bigger.

13. Bring the Outdoors In~
Staged homes are almost always graced with bountiful fresh flowers and pricey orchid arrangements, but you can get a similar effect simply by raiding your yard. "Take clippings of branches or twigs and put them in a large vase in the corner of a room to add height– it’sa great structural piece that doesn’t cost anything," says Michelle Yackel, the Atlanta stager. It’s also an easy way to incorporate seasonal greenery. Budding magnolia clippings or unfurling fern fronds herald the arrival of spring, summer blooms add splashes of cheerful color, blazing fall foliage warms up your decor on chilly autumn days, holly branches heavy with berries look smashing in winter, and airy feather-grass plumes add elegance and texture any time of year.

Above all, "Get creative! Don’t be scared to try something different," Yackel says. Indeed, just about every stager has tales of home sellers who, upon seeing their once-tired abodes transformed, were so blown away by the results that they decided to stay put. Who knows–you, too, may just find that you love your "new" home so much you’ll never want to give it up.

15 Things To Know About Me and Why I Am Crazy

15. I don't believe anyone can do anything for you better than u can do for yourself in these areas, mani-pedi, hair styling, make-up, cooking spaghetti, painting your house, decorating your house, and psycho-therapy.

14. I am an Italian-American. My paternal grandparents immigrated to the US from Sicily as did and my maternal great grand parents.

13. Some of my favorite books are: The Godfather, Gone With The Wind, The Fortunate Pilgrim, The Villa, Pride and Prejudice and anything by Julia Quinn.

12. Some of my favorite movies are: Frosty the Snowman, The Peanuts Christmas Special, Dirty Dancing, the Godfather, Legally Blond, Along Came Polly and Office Space.

11. I love turtles. I love turtles because they are underestimated, under appreciated and they don't give a shit about that. I have a turtle named Grazia.

10. I am short and petite. I weigh about 105 and I'm only like 5'1. Steve on the other hand is the perfect height at 5'11 and built perfectly so that he will never look "fat".

9. My Grandmother is my absolute favorite person alive. She is so kind and generous and sweet. She is something to aspire to.

8. I am most afraid of losing my security. I don't really know how to explain that.

7. I have never really finished anything I have ever started.

6. When I was 17 I thought I knew everything there was to know because I worked at Fashion Bug, watched TV, hung out with my friends, had a boyfriend and a car. Now I look back and laugh at that girl.

5. I went to Ursuline College and majored in Public Relations, with a Minor in Italian Language and Culture.

4. I went back to Ursuline College and earned a Master of Management Degree.

3. I don't have many close friends.

2. I married the only man alive that can drive me crazy, make me laugh, make me cry, make me smile, make me feel good about myself, or make me miserable. I can honestly say that my relationship with Steve is one of the things I am most proud of.

1. Steve and I have the most wonderful puppy. Looking back in my life it is my dogs that I feel the most connected to. I have been blessed with wonderful animals.

My Husband Won't Drink My Coffee

I made some for him. I asked him, as he lays in bed, but he said no. It's kinda sad for me. Maybe I'll take mine outside on the front porch...